Gen 35:18 And it came to pass, as her soul was in departing, (for she died) that she called his name Ben-oni: but his father called him Benjamin.

Ben-oni means "son of my sorrow or misfortune" but Benjamin means "son of my right hand", "son of joy". Do you live completely alone in a highly populated world, in which you are called a loser, a failure, or a nobody? It could even be that, you were compared to your worldly father whose life (in some cases) could be described as being terrible. You wonder whether you will ever be able to rise above this label which you have been stuck with since birth. You ask yourself whether there is somebody who is on your side.

However, you are the one who the Father says that you are: "You are a child of God!" As a Christian, you are more than a conqueror, you are a joint heir with Christ, you are the temple of God, a chosen generation, and a holy nation. No matter what stamp the world has forced upon you, you are the one who the Father says that you are: "You are my child." This applies to those who obey the Gospel and then follow Jesus. ld

1.Peter 2:9 But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.

Additional verses to study:
Acts 2:38; Galatians 3:26 and 4:6; Ephesians 1:5; John 1;12; Romans 8:14; Luke 20:35-36