I Samuel 7:12 – BSB – Then Samuel took a stone and set it between 
            Mizpah and Shen, and named it Ebenezer, saying, "Thus far the 
            LORD has helped us."
          Romans 12:2 – BSB – Do not be conformed to this world, but be 
            transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to 
            discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God.
            
            
I 
            think we all can look back at a point in our lives where everything 
            changed. Maybe it was powerful and astonishing, accompanied by dramatic 
            demonstrations of the importance of the moment. Or, perhaps it was 
            more subtle, just a shift in direction that eventually led you to 
            a whole new world. Either way, when you ask yourself how you got to 
            where you are now, you can trace it all back to that hour. That was 
            a turning point. This passage in Genesis 35 was, in my opinion, the 
            most pivotal turning point in Jacob's life. It's why he built a pillar. 
            I think he learned this practice from his father and grandfather. 
            Whenever something happened that was life changing, these men built 
            memorials. They were usually altars, so that they could honor God 
            with a sacrifice. Then, from that point on, whenever they passed by 
            for generations to come, they never forgot what happened there.
          So what happened here at this pillar? The Lord God changed Jacob's 
            name. He was no more Jacob, the liar, the deceiver, the supplanter; 
            he was now Israel, the one who had wrestled with God and come out 
            changed. This wasn't his first encounter with God, nor would it be 
            his last. However, this was what he wanted to remember. So why now? 
            Before, his relationship with God was secondary to his personal will 
            and desires. He served God, and God, in turn, blessed him. However, 
            after this night, Jacob's direction had shifted. He didn't just have 
            a new name, he had a new attitude. We know it's true because once 
            he returned to his family, he went through his household and destroyed 
            every idol. Heretofore, everyone had simply served the God of Abraham 
            alongside all of their own household gods. Now, Jacob will allow this 
            no more. Even their clothes had to be cleaned, so that none of their 
            influence remained. This reflected the drastic change inside of Jacob. 
            No more the influence of this world, he had decided. Then, he built 
            a pillar so that he would never forget.
          
Philosophers 
            had debated for generations if it is possible for a person to truly 
            change; to reset their course and leave behind their old ways. This 
            month is January, and the world is full of people resolving to change 
            their lives for the better but they will be back to their old habits 
            by February. It seems like change is a hopeless cause. However, while 
            I am no philosopher, there is one thing I have come to believe. A 
            turning point is possible if you are willing to lay down your will, 
            wants, and desires and cling to Jesus just like Jacob did. It begins 
            at a holy place just like Bethel where you and God meet together. 
            Then, you don't let go until your direction changes. You'll know it's 
            real, because you'll start digging out all those old gods that you 
            thought were so precious and casting them away. It’s called repentance 
            and it’s available today, if you are looking for a change. ah